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first writer, Amel Saleh wrote exactly how I feel about the holiday season.
Saleh first sentence states, “The holiday season is driven entirely by
materialism.” which is a statement that I completely agree with. Holidays are a
time for families to spend time with one another, to celebrate and appreciate
the good fortune they have. As of lately, I’ve noticed that during this season
people place more emphasis on showing off the presents they received, having
the biggest turkey, competition between who has the more extravagant Christmas
lights on the block; it’s gotten out of control. It seems as though the
expectations of what the holidays should be has drastically changed from when I
was a kid to the children now. I was taught that holidays were to be all about
family and appreciation rather than who has the better possessions and
belongings.
Family
was always the most important part of the holidays. Having a big family meant
that the amount of presents each of my siblings and I got were exiguous. My mother would always tell us, “Don’t expect
much this Christmas, instead appreciate that you even got anything and that you
are surrounded by people who love you.” She always said that after one of the
younger kids had a crying fit over a toy she denied them of having, so her tone
wasn’t exactly the most patient when she said this. However, when Christmas day
arrived none of my siblings and I cared about the amount of presents we
received. What was important to us was watching the cheesy Christmas shows with
our parents, having teamed snowball fights (the teams were usually always Team
Mom and Dad vs. all the kids), and then warming ourselves with a home cooked
family dinner. The time spent with my family is what I remember and cherish most
rather than what present I got and I believe that’s the way the holidays should
be spent.
ReplyDeleteI could not agree more with you. Very well said. Holidays have turned to materialistic ones. After all, look at Black-Friday. People wait outside stores for a long time to buy their family members something for Christmas instead of spending that time with them.
I agree that Christmas should be more focused on family time. A new Ipad is an awesome gift, but spending time with your family and creating fun memories is worth so much more.
ReplyDeleteI agree with your point of view on the holiday season. I'm glad that you spent tha day with your family and truly enjoyed it.
ReplyDeleteExactly, the holidays should be about family and the moments we will remember. Gifts aren't everything but they are lately.
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ReplyDeleteI swear, your holiday seasons with your family could possibly be the epitome of what I wish my holidays would have and could be like. It's just sad that a lot of people would rather be preoccupied with being the "best" or giving and receiving the most extravagant gifts. It's comforting to know that such a way of celebrating, as a loving family, really does happen for some people.
ReplyDeleteYour holidays with your family sound wonderful! I agree with you that the increase in concern over gifts is disgusting.
ReplyDeleteFamily time during the holidays should always be the most important thing. I have also noticed that people are starting to show off what they receive.
ReplyDeleteThe snowball fights you guys had sounds like so much fun. I agree, I also grew up being taught that we should appreciate our gifts even if they are small. Christmas isn't at all only about the presents.
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